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The FPMT is an organization devoted to preserving and spreading Mahayana Buddhism worldwide by creating opportunities to listen, reflect, meditate, practice and actualize the unmistaken teachings of the Buddha and based on that experience spreading the Dharma to sentient beings. We provide integrated education through which people’s minds and hearts can be transformed into their highest potential for the benefit of others, inspired by an attitude of universal responsibility and service. We are committed to creating harmonious environments and helping all beings develop their full potential of infinite wisdom and compassion. Our organization is based on the Buddhist tradition of Lama Tsongkhapa of Tibet as taught to us by our founders Lama Thubten Yeshe and Lama Thubten Zopa Rinpoche.
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Die Stiftung zur Erhaltung der Mahayana Tradition (FPMT) ist eine Organisation, die sich weltweit für die Erhaltung und Verbreitung des Mahayana-Buddhismus einsetzt, indem sie Möglichkeiten schafft, den makellosen Lehren des Buddha zuzuhören, über sie zur reflektieren und zu meditieren und auf der Grundlage dieser Erfahrung das Dharma unter den Lebewesen zu verbreiten.
Wir bieten integrierte Schulungswege an, durch denen der Geist und das Herz der Menschen in ihr höchstes Potential verwandelt werden zum Wohl der anderen – inspiriert durch eine Haltung der universellen Verantwortung und dem Wunsch zu dienen. Wir haben uns verpflichtet, harmonische Umgebungen zu schaffen und allen Wesen zu helfen, ihr volles Potenzial unendlicher Weisheit und grenzenlosen Mitgefühls zu verwirklichen.
Unsere Organisation basiert auf der buddhistischen Tradition von Lama Tsongkhapa von Tibet, so wie sie uns von unseren Gründern Lama Thubten Yeshe und Lama Thubten Zopa Rinpoche gelehrt wird.
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La Fundación para la preservación de la tradición Mahayana (FPMT) es una organización que se dedica a preservar y difundir el budismo Mahayana en todo el mundo, creando oportunidades para escuchar, reflexionar, meditar, practicar y actualizar las enseñanzas inconfundibles de Buda y en base a esa experiencia difundir el Dharma a los seres.
Proporcionamos una educación integrada a través de la cual las mentes y los corazones de las personas se pueden transformar en su mayor potencial para el beneficio de los demás, inspirados por una actitud de responsabilidad y servicio universales. Estamos comprometidos a crear ambientes armoniosos y ayudar a todos los seres a desarrollar todo su potencial de infinita sabiduría y compasión.
Nuestra organización se basa en la tradición budista de Lama Tsongkhapa del Tíbet como nos lo enseñaron nuestros fundadores Lama Thubten Yeshe y Lama Zopa Rinpoche.
A continuación puede ver una lista de los centros y sus páginas web en su lengua preferida.
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L’organisation de la FPMT a pour vocation la préservation et la diffusion du bouddhisme du mahayana dans le monde entier. Elle offre l’opportunité d’écouter, de réfléchir, de méditer, de pratiquer et de réaliser les enseignements excellents du Bouddha, pour ensuite transmettre le Dharma à tous les êtres. Nous proposons une formation intégrée grâce à laquelle le cœur et l’esprit de chacun peuvent accomplir leur potentiel le plus élevé pour le bien d’autrui, inspirés par le sens du service et une responsabilité universelle. Nous nous engageons à créer un environnement harmonieux et à aider tous les êtres à épanouir leur potentiel illimité de compassion et de sagesse. Notre organisation s’appuie sur la tradition guéloukpa de Lama Tsongkhapa du Tibet, telle qu’elle a été enseignée par nos fondateurs Lama Thoubtèn Yéshé et Lama Zopa Rinpoché.
Visitez le site de notre Editions Mahayana pour les traductions, conseils et nouvelles du Bureau international en français.
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L’FPMT è un organizzazione il cui scopo è preservare e diffondere il Buddhismo Mahayana nel mondo, creando occasioni di ascolto, riflessione, meditazione e pratica dei perfetti insegnamenti del Buddha, al fine di attualizzare e diffondere il Dharma fra tutti gli esseri senzienti.
Offriamo un’educazione integrata, che può trasformare la mente e i cuori delle persone nel loro massimo potenziale, per il beneficio di tutti gli esseri, ispirati da un’attitudine di responsabilità universale e di servizio.
Il nostro obiettivo è quello di creare contesti armoniosi e aiutare tutti gli esseri a sviluppare in modo completo le proprie potenzialità di infinita saggezza e compassione.
La nostra organizzazione si basa sulla tradizione buddhista di Lama Tsongkhapa del Tibet, così come ci è stata insegnata dai nostri fondatori Lama Thubten Yeshe e Lama Zopa Rinpoche.
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“护持大乘法脉基金会”( 英文简称:FPMT。全名:Foundation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition) 是一个致力于护持和弘扬大乘佛法的国际佛教组织。我们提供听闻,思维,禅修,修行和实证佛陀无误教法的机会,以便让一切众生都能够享受佛法的指引和滋润。
我们全力创造和谐融洽的环境, 为人们提供解行并重的完整佛法教育,以便启发内在的环宇悲心及责任心,并开发内心所蕴藏的巨大潜能 — 无限的智慧与悲心 — 以便利益和服务一切有情。
FPMT的创办人是图腾耶喜喇嘛和喇嘛梭巴仁波切。我们所修习的是由两位上师所教导的,西藏喀巴大师的佛法传承。
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護持大乘法脈基金會”( 英文簡稱:FPMT。全名:Found
ation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition ) 是一個致力於護持和弘揚大乘佛法的國際佛教組織。我們提供聽聞, 思維,禪修,修行和實證佛陀無誤教法的機會,以便讓一切眾生都能 夠享受佛法的指引和滋潤。 我們全力創造和諧融洽的環境,
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How Beautiful are the Feet
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
The music comes drifting through the speakers. So gentle, so lyrical. This aria from Handel’s Messiah is one of my favorites. How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the gospel of peace and bring good tidings. My Christian heritage wafts seamlessly into my Buddhist practice. I bow at your lotus-like feet, my guru … peace and good tidings … your kindness heralds an instantaneous dawn of great bliss … lift up your heart, lift up your voice … rejoice, rejoice. When Buddha took his first seven steps, lotuses appeared at each one.
From the feet, footprints. On the beach I make up stories about the birds or people or animals who have left their imprints on the sand. One day I followed a very odd footprint to discover a red crab hiding under seaweed attached to its shell. It scuttled away to safety. Another day it seemed like a huge bird had been on the beach. No, it was a wallaby.
When we see the footprints, we can walk the same path. My granddaughter walks in my footprints and I play the game of going in circles until we are both laughing. Merlin sniffs at some dog prints. He can probably tell which dog ran along that part of the beach. We can follow the footprints of those who know the path.
Which footprints will I follow? “In the master’s steps he trod,” we sing at Christmas in the Good King Wenceslas carol, “where the snow lay deepest. Heat was in the very sod which the saint had printed.”
How do we know that the footprints are those of the master? If we can see where they lead, the answer is easy. If we cannot see where they lead, then we act on trust and we may not know at first whether or not that trust is misplaced.
Carl Jung wrote about the mana personality. This refers to those who become spiritual teachers, but then are seduced by their egos into inflated ideas of their own importance. I know about this because I have to watch it in myself every time I teach. It is easy for any of the eight worldly dharmas to creep into what I thought was a pure motivation. Power, prestige, prosperity, praise or peace at any cost, all these can seep into a teacher’s mind. The teacher who started following the master’s footsteps can so easily become distracted.
It is not easy to check out whether a teacher has become seduced by the eight worldly dharmas, but there can be clues. You can find some of these in the false guru test.2 Here are a few of them:
- Is unable to take criticism
- Acts omnipotently and without accountability
- Encourages adoration, masked as encouraging devotion
- Collects a large band of angry ex-followers
Of course, any of these can also be the outcome of crazy wisdom or wrathful action. The false guru, and his/her students, will often argue that this is the case, but too much unwise activity has been masked by this argument. Then, of course, perhaps our guru has wisdom that seems crazy to us, but is still wisdom. We need, then, to check out our own inner guru, our own wisdom.
Humility is perhaps the most important key. There is a wonderful photo of our precious Lama Zopa Rinpoche bowing low in the presence of His Holiness the Dalai Lama, His Holiness is holding up Rinpoche’s chin for the photo. His Holiness himself keeps saying, “I’m just a simple monk.” I remember one day coming unexpectedly across His Holiness. At first I did not recognize who it was because his walk was that of a simple monk on the path. No swaggering. No expensive robes. A simple monk, a friendly monk , who smiled at me as we passed.
Following in the master’s steps means following the imprints of the master’s mind. While we trudge through the snow, the iciness of ignorance, there is warmth where the master walks, the warmth of compassion and wisdom. We can follow any imprints. We can create our own. Most importantly, we can follow the imprints of those who know the path. How beautiful, then are the feet of the genuine guru. Rejoice.
1 https://www.lamayeshe.com/index.php?sect=article&id=50&chid=62
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It Really is all About Me (and My Ego)
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
(First published in Mandala April-June 2010 Online Exclusives)
The more I study Dharma, the more I come to realize “Oh! This stuff really does work,” the better I feel. I am sure we all have our own stories to tell. I remember when I suddenly realized that I did not need to make pleas to some distant deity, but just be aware of the ever-present atmosphere of profound wisdom and loving kindness. It reminded me of that passage in the Bible: “Even the very hairs on your head are numbered.”1
A few wispy clouds hang listlessly in a deep blue sky. I need a hat now that my numbered hairs are so short. How easy to feel cared for on a day like this as I walk along the beach. With salt on my lips and sand on my feet, I return to a house shut down to keep the heat out. How easy to rejoice. How easy to send this peace out on my breath. I am so happy. My ego is so happy.
My ego tells me that my Dharma practice is all about me. It is about wanting my happiness, my peace of mind, the ripening of my good karma. If I need to send a thought out to others, then it is a small price to pay. In any case, says my ego, if I say my prayers then my teachers will be happy with me and give me their attention. My ego says that its happiness and mine are one and the same thing.
Look far ahead.
Generate a vast mind.
Don’t squeeze yourself…
… Say the Kadampa geshes2
Look far ahead. “Well,” says my chronically dissatisfied ego, “I would really feel happier if we could attain the higher levels of the form realm.” So now I need to work toward a good rebirth. My ego is even happy to put up with meditation. Meditating on the emptiness of space is enough to give us the power to reach higher levels of meditative concentration. More meditation, more concentration and it can even reach the formless realms. No blatant suffering to worry about. Amazing power. Bliss out. Happy ego.
“Not good enough,” complains my ego. “I want complete peace.” So now we can tolerate all sorts of difficulties, even practicing compassion to generate the merit to attain enlightenment. Our minds are vast and my ego is in a hurry. It squeezes me as much as possible. “Being relaxed is the same as being lazy,” says this unrelenting ego. How absurd! My ego, which wants peace, will not let me be peaceful. I’m beginning to think I would rather get rid of this dictator anyway. Don’t squeeze yourself, say the Kadampa geshes. My ego does not like this, but when I step away from the dictatorship of this relentless ego of mine, I breathe a sigh of relief.
One day my ego will become stuck. It will tolerate everything except its own annihilation. And me? Well, I have learnt a lot even if my motivation was rather flawed. In particular I have learned how deep and subtle this ego can be, how easily it fools me into thinking I am being altruistic when I am being self-seeking, or wise when I pretend knowledge, or full of realizations when I am foolishly faking.
In Lama Zopa Rinpoche’s words: “With a vast, brave mind, think, ‘I’m going to do all this. Even if it takes many, many years, I’m going to do it.’”3 What I am learning is that this vast brave mind is much better off without its tyrannical ego.
The Dharma really is all about me, not my ego.
2From Kadampa Teachings by Kyabje Lama Zopa Rinpoche.
3From Kadampa Teachings by Kyabje Lama Zopa Rinpoche.
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The Unspeakable – Spiritual Dryness
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
(First published in Mandala January-March 2010 Online Exclusives)
It is important to understand that true practice is something we do from moment to moment, from day to day. We do whatever we can, with whatever wisdom we have, and dedicate it all to the benefit of others. We just live our life simply, to the best of our ability.
– Lama Yeshe
It was quiet this morning before the wind came up with the threat of rain. It is so easy to be calm when all is calm around us. Nothing challenged my complacency. Merlin and I wandered along the high-tide mark with little dashes away from the more assertive waves. He is now asleep on one chair. I am on the other with my laptop. On other days, the world intrudes. Sometimes it intrudes with delight and joy. Sometimes the grey, cold rain sends me into a glum despair. Everything seems insurmountable and unending. As Macbeth said, “Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow creeps in this petty pace from day to day.”1 Poor old Macbeth was having a bad time, but would he have been so morbid and calculating if he was a Buddhist? Would I feel like this if I was a “real” Buddhist?
Buddhists are supposed to have the answers. Instead of trying to fulfill ourselves by becoming kings, as Macbeth was doing, we know the futility of searching for lasting happiness in short-term pleasures. We can head for the ultimate solution, the direct realization of emptiness. We can use the many practical methods for dealing with negative thoughts. We do not have to trudge through misery the way Macbeth did, yet the reality is that even long-term Dharma students find their enthusiasm withering. Their practice has become dry. I know that from firsthand experience and I have no doubt that many other Dharma students know what I am talking about.
When we experience spiritual dryness, practice seems more like a penalty. Dharma leaves us depressed and enlightenment seems so remote that the promise of achieving it seems hollow. What has happened to that wonderful excitement we felt when we first met the teachings, when we first found our teacher? What has happened to the delight of saying our prayers? What has happened to our enthusiasm for meditation? We know the “right” answers but they do not seem to be working. Some of us deal with this barrenness by becoming critical, or resentful, or self-righteous, or feeling overtaken by a sense of failure. Some of us retreat into Dharma activities with such energy we have no space left to work out what is happening. At least that solution, despite its mixed motives, will be beneficial for others. In secret though, within that desolation, we feel that Buddhism has not worked for us.
Christian mystics call the deepest of such dryness the “dark night of the soul.” The same self which had delighted in states of ecstasy must now surrender itself, its individuality and its will, completely and be at one with, be of the same taste as, the Divine Being. This sounds very much like abandoning the false view of the self, not just in theory, but in stark reality. This deep desolation stems from our resistance to letting go of our attachment to an inherently existing self. It is the most radical aspect of our practice. This realization is not achieved when we are ecstatic about our practice because there is no challenge at that time to our clinging to a false self in the same way that my peacefulness was not challenged by the quiet beach. When we experience spiritual dryness, it is this same false self which is objecting to its annihilation. Its clinging is deep and intense. It no longer likes Dharma because instead of being comforted by it as it was in its early days, it is now threatened by it. That false self is also what we call “me” and “I.”
The only option is to surrender this clinging which means giving up countless lifetimes of apparent safety and security, and for what? Uncertainty? Insecurity? To become of no importance? To experience death while still living? No wonder monks cling to their robes as they approach this awareness. It takes a lot of courage to welcome such an experience. And if we can give up the clinging, what then? Perhaps we can then see that much of our Dharma practice had been a subtle way to reinforce the false self. Perhaps the desolation means that we are moving into a deeper understanding of Dharma, of knowing that the realization of emptiness is not just an intellectual exercise but a radical restructuring of our whole self-perception.
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Don’t Throw Dharma at Me When I’m in a Bad Mood
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
(First published in Mandala January-March 2009)
I want freedom from suffering on my own terms. I would like the weather to be always temperate, and people likewise. I would like only food that I enjoy, never having to get up early for puja and being able to get top marks in a test without studying. My teacher would give me unlimited and undivided attention. My pride would never be dented, my depression would never be denied and my anger would never be challenged.
Yes, I want freedom from suffering, but I want it now and on my terms. Don’t throw Dharma at me. My ego knows all the correct answers and uses them to protect itself. I want complete freedom from the suffering of my ego, not freedom from my ego.
It was my ego that took refuge, renunciation and bodhichitta vows. It wanted to be bolstered against turbulence. It did not want to be challenged, and it definitely did not want to be annihilated. It was quite happy for anything outside its pride and self-seeking to be annihilated. It was happy to annihilate anger that showed me up as an imperfect Dharma student and nun, or attachments to things that other people wanted but I did not. Even when it looked at the teachings on emptiness, my ego managed to make this serve its own purposes. It could, for example, deny any responsibility because it was empty. It could also twist dependent arising by claiming that my suffering was dependent on all the factors around me.
I doubt if I am alone in this battle to preserve my ego. Of course, that is not what Dharma is about, but it is very easy to fool ourselves. To annihilate suffering, we necessarily annihilate the ego. We are not invalidating the self which arises in dependence on the five aggregates of body and mind. We are invalidating that ego which lives in a state of denial, and in which anything outside the barriers set up by pride is ignored or repressed.
When we are sick, or depressed, or red with anger, or green with jealousy, these are the moments when the self-serving ego is exposed. The self-serving ego has a strong aversion towards any Dharma practice which challenges its supremacy. We can catch ourselves out and plug the emotions. We can say that Dharma teachings are too vague or too hard, and avoid any responsibility. But if we want deeper healing, then we have to stop and investigate why our self-serving ego is so desperate to protect itself. This is an intensely personal exercise. It involves seeking out our unique karmic imprints. It means asking ourselves: “Why do I react in that way?” “What are the expectations of my self-serving ego?”
Bolstering a prideful ego is the opposite of Dharma practice. So if I really want to practice Dharma I have to destroy the very thing that I had thought was going to be protected by Dharma. This also implies a huge transformation in my perceptions of this “I”. By this I mean transforming the dependently-arising “I” to include all those parts of itself that the self-seeking ego has denied. It means such things as acknowledging that I prefer to be in control, or that my self-righteousness is invalid, or my self-abnegation is not really renunciation but a way of manipulating people to help me, or my being a stickler for rules is a way of masking my faults. It means dropping the stratagems of the self-seeking ego. It means understanding our own ways of practicing the eight worldly dharmas. It means painful self-realisation. It means becoming your own therapist. It means not quoting texts, but developing realizations about these texts. And it involves pain.
Then when we are prepared to let go our self-serving ego we being to understand the richness of the Dharma teachings for what they are. And when I get there, you can throw it all at me and I will be delighted.
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Winning Gold
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
(First published in Mandala October-December 2008)
As I write, the Beijing Olympic Games are in full swing. On my TV screen are ecstatic gold medallists. The silver or bronze winners may be only a few hundredths of a second behind, but it is the holder of the gold medal that gets most of the attention. Western society admires and rewards the “best”.
I enjoy watching the Olympic Games because I enjoy seeing what the human body can do, but I cringe at the jingoistic commentaries arriving in my lounge room. Why do nations need so desperately to measure themselves in this way, like siblings vying for the attention of Mom and Dad? Being best becomes an end in itself. The 25 gold medals won by Australian Olympians between 1980 and 1996 cost around $37million.1
We can smile at this foolishness, but most of us are deeply affected by the demand to be best. Either we have some skills and try to be top at something, or we give up and fall into hopelessness and depression. Sometimes we swing between those two extremes and wonder why we are chronically dissatisfied. What is more, we bring this neurosis into Dharma practice. We want the gold medal of having the most attention from teacher, or sitting longer in meditation, or being the busiest student at our Dharma center.
It is pride that causes the problems. Pride is quite different from self-confidence. Pride inflates our fragile self-esteem. It becomes a source of disrespect, especially towards people with lesser qualities. It might pretend to be self-confidence, but self-confidence simply knows our strengths and limitations. It is neither puffed up nor deflated when it measures itself. It leaves us free to be compassionate towards people we can help and to be clear in our Dharma practice.
Guru devotion is so easily twisted by pride. It turns into a competitive race to be the best Dharma student. The teachings on guru devotion tell us to do even more than our best, and there is a good reason for that: correct devotion is the root of the path. So how and why do we get caught up in pride? The self-serving ego desperately wants to be propped up, not annihilated. It needs to be proud of itself. It serves the teacher so it can be important. It wants the gold medal of best Dharma student. Then when someone else gets the attention that it wants, it becomes jealous and resentful. Whenever such feelings intrude into our Dharma practice we can be sure that our self-serving ego has taken over once again.
Lama Zopa Rinpoche says: “Dharma practice offers the most exciting, highest happiness there is: following advice, finding no hardship at all in whatever advice the guru gives, even things that generally seem hard in the view of other people, even impossible. That itself is guru devotion. Then, seeing your guru as Buddha, without any question, is incredible, the peak, the highest enjoyment. Then, nothing is difficult to accept. But if the devotion is not strong, if it is wishy-washy, if there’s no real devotion, only a little, and it’s artificial, from the lips, but not in the heart, or it’s very weak like when a fire has been burning a long time and there are only one or two sparks left, it can disappear very easily. Then it’s very difficult to follow advice, even if the advice is simple, and not a great sacrifice. Even very small things become hard. The mind doesn’t want to do it.”2
Wishy-washy devotion, doubt, anger towards the Dharma – these are all signs that our motivation has become contaminated by an ego caught up in a grasping and muddled search for happiness. Remember, this ego goes to great lengths to avoid annihilation and yet the point of Buddhism is precisely that, to annihilate this ego. There is a big difference between doing our best with a quiet ego-less self-confidence and being the one with the grossly puffed-up ego who wants to win a gold medal. How fortunate we are, then, in the midst of the worst excesses of our pride. It is this same inflated ego that we are trying to expose when we investigate emptiness.
1 Brett Hutchins, Sydney Morning Herald, 7. August 2008
2 https://www.lamayeshe.com/lamazopa/advicebook/lamrim/guru.shtml
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Cleaning the Whole Mirror
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
(First published in Mandala August-September 2008)
“I hope that you understand what the word ’spiritual’ really means. It means to search for – to investigate – the true nature of the mind. There’s nothing spiritual outside. My rosary isn’t spiritual; my robes aren’t spiritual. Spiritual means the mind and spiritual people are those who seek its nature.” – Lama Yeshe.
When I first heard about the Buddhist idea of taking refuge, my immediate reaction was one of disgust. I thought it meant running away from reality. It reminded me of a hymn which I disliked for the same reason: “Rock of Ages cleft for me. Let me hide myself in thee.” No way was I going to hide from life.
Looking back, my reaction reflected my own way of coping when life became too much: running away and hiding. I love being alone. My default personality type is introversion. Yet in those days I despised introversion as a weakness. Obviously my understanding of refuge has changed, but there was an element of truth in that early reaction. Refuge can mean running away from reality.
Living in a Dharma center which is also a retreat center gives plenty of opportunity to meet people who are running away. Relationship problems, mental illness, burnout, failure, catastrophes, suffering in its countless guises are behind the search for peace. Our motivation for refuge is contaminated by neurosis, or exhaustion, or both. Secretly we want a refuge which makes no demands on us and solves our problems for us. Suffering, after all, is the first noble truth and the third noble truth promises complete release from that suffering. Like the words of the hymn, refuge can be the perfect hideout.
Most of us, when we first meet Buddhism are trying to prop up a self which is not only a deluded idea from the ultimate point of view, but is also deluded from a conventional point of view. This conventionally deluded self is busy denying what it does not want to know about itself. It says it is taking refuge because it wants to fulfill its bodhicitta motivation, but at the same time it refuses to look at its other less noble and self-seeking motivations. From that perspective, we understand refuge from a mind like a dirty mirror, reflecting only what we want it to reflect.
The delusion becomes worse when we try to explode the notion of a self-existing ‘I’ . We can be quite happy to refute the conscious aspect of that illusory ‘I’, and even think we have found the object to be refuted. The unconscious aspect of the ‘I’ which Jung calls the ’shadow’ remains intact. We have polished some parts of the mirror, and left the dirt on other parts.
Still, even when our motives are mixed, there are times when it makes sense to pull away from everything going on and take stock with our baby Buddha minds. Buddha taught four noble truths, and the missing two are the ones which our mixed motives are not so keen to investigate. Neurotic refuge is not interested in the cause of suffering or the path from suffering which form the other two noble truths. Exhausted refuge cannot cope with them. At some stage we have to forgo the running away from reality and understand that refuge shows us the path to unmask and face up to our more subtle confusions and delusions.
If taking refuge only means running away from reality, then it is going to harden our delusions. We come home from retreat even more resentful of the realities of poor relationships, illness and failures. Home and work life seem to be a huge distraction from Dharma practice. On one hand, we yearn for the quietness of meditation and on the other hand we live in the noise and chaos of ordinary life. We yearn for the pseudo refuge of ignoring our karma. We have forgotten that each irritation of ordinary life is a personal Dharma teaching. Each irritation spotlights our own unique ignorance, aversions and attachments, and allows us to see underneath to our own personal, twisted wisdom.
If refuge really means hiding, are lamas hiding when they go away and spend three years or twelve years, or a whole lifetime in retreat? Retreat is a time to take perspective, to train the mind to behave itself, to train the mind to stay in increasingly subtle states, to strengthen wisdom and compassion. Refuge is a time to dwell in the compassionate wisdom of Buddha, Dharma and Sangha. With that dwelling in refuge, we are open to the guidance we need from wiser and more compassionate minds than our own.
There are good reasons for taking refuge with a mind like a dirty mirror with all its self-serving motivations. We need a cloth and water to clean the whole mirror.
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The Perfect Altar
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
(First published in Mandala June-July 2008)
If we are honest we see how often our good intentions in Dharma practice collapse into the lesser intentions of our self-serving egos. Often we think we are acting from a good motive, such as generosity, when the reality is that we are coming from a negative motivation, such as pride.
There is the well-known story of Drontompa who saw a monk circumambulating a monastery. He called to the monk: “It is good to circumambulate, but it would better to practise Dharma.” The monk then thought he would do prostrations instead, but when Drontompa saw him, he called out, “Good to do prostrations, but better still to practise Dharma”. The same thing happened when the monk tried reciting mantras or making many offerings, even when he tried meditating. What was wrong? When he asked, Drontompa said three times, “Give up this life in your mind.” Drontompa was referring to the Eight Worldly Dharmas: acquiring or not acquiring things, comfort or discomfort, interesting or uninteresting sounds, praise or criticism. The Twenty-first Century versions of the Eight Worldly Dharmas are called neuroses.
Psychiatry coined the word “narcissism” to refer to this self-serving ego. It came from the myth of Narcissus, the ultimate self-admirer. He fell in love with his own image in a pool. The problem was that the image could not love him back. Rather than shattering his own image into a thousand pieces, he died of thirst at the pool. If we want to eliminate the self-serving ego, then we need to shatter its image. Cherishing our narcissistic image is cherishing our self-serving ego.
The motives that come from the self-cherishing ego can trick us into thinking they come from a clear mind. If we investigate carefully, we can separate them out. This means taking a clear and courageous look at ourselves. That is the psychological task in realizing emptiness.
Rules, rules, rules
I was once criticised for not filling my water bowls properly. I was told I should measure them with a rice grain. Should I measure it by the length or the width of the rice grain? Which variety of rice? What does it mean to fill the water bowls “properly”? What are the rules, and why do we have them anyway?
Rules are great for boosting the self-serving ego, particularly pride. Keeping to the fine print of ritual can come from pride or it can come from delight. Geshe Baen Gung-gyael knew about mixed motives. He set up the very best offerings on his altar because his benefactor was coming to visit. Suddenly he realized he really wanted his benefactor to think he was a good monk. He jumped up and threw ash all over the offerings. He caught himself out – his motives were mixed. The way we react to rules and ritual can give us insight into our mixed motives.
Rules are handy because we do not have to make decisions. Everything is in black and white. Rules can give us freedom, such as feeling confident that other cars will drive on the correct side of the road. They can also be like a prison. I remember when the acceptable length of a school uniform was three inches below the knee. That rule felt like a prison.
Lama Zopa Rinpoche says that practices are more meaningful and enjoyable if you know the reasons why they work, rather than just following the rules of a tradition and invoking this or that. There are rules, which we call precepts, for lay people, for retreat, for Tantric practitioners, for monks and nuns. The purpose of these rules is to help protect the mind. We become free from problems and obstacles, all the sufferings. All our wishes for happiness, up to highest enlightenment, even the cause of happiness for all sentient beings, become fulfilled.
Rules become all-important when our self-confidence is very shaky. For a person with a chaotic or fearful mind, routine and rules mean being in control, at least for a time. This is the logic behind obsessive-compulsive behaviour. Excessive adherence to rules becomes a way of escaping from other suffering such as depression and the causes of that depression. But when we are unsure or afraid, then rules can help to develop self-confidence, such as a child knowing how to get to school. We cannot work out which is which by just observing someone else. We can only judge by examining our own minds.
When our motives are clear, then filling water bowls is a symbolic act with positive karmic benefits. Offering cool water gives rise to pure ethics. Similarly, offering the deliciousness of the water, its lightness and clarity, and its kindness to the stomach, all have positive karmic benefits. On the other hand, when our motives are from self-cherishing, whether disguised or not, then we create the karma for more self-cherishing.
Lama Zopa Rinpoche has transformed his home in Aptos into a pure land. As you walk in, you are surrounded by a wealth of holy images and offerings and lights carried on the scent of incense. It feels like walking into his personal visualization of the merit field. For someone else the perfect altar may simply be a candle, flower and bowl of fruit. It all depends on the motive
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Being in Love
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
(First published in Mandala July-September 2009)
I am in love. I adore my children and my grandchildren and my dog. What great pleasure there is when a grandchild runs up to me in delight: “Nanni, Nanni, Nanni’s here!” Such experiences are great treasures. I watch my dog, ears blown back by the wind, playing games with the seagulls. I listen as small fingers find their way around the piano to make a tune. Truly, I wish I could take the same enormous delight in all people and all creatures. My Dharma practice lets me know the incredible benefits of being able to do that, but my mind has lots of old and deep habits. These precious moments with my family teach me what is possible.
We usually use the phrase “being in love” for romantic love, in which all things seem to be possible. Romantic love gets a bad press because it is loaded with attachment and sex, but its other side is joy. It is the joy of having wishes fulfilled. I suspect that the wiser the wish, the greater the joy. The lovers in slow motion running across the idyllic field are no different than me and my grandchild being pulled toward each other with happiness.
When we get too serious about our Dharma practice, we forget that Dharma can be filled with joy. Definitely there are times when it is not easy to practice Dharma. There are times to push beyond our limits and then find that the limits were figments of our imagination anyway. There are times to be patient and not get upset because we have not managed to change instantly. There are those moments at a Dharma center when everything is in chaos. There are those moments with friends when they push us too hard, or ask too much of us, or violate our boundaries. These are hardly pleasurable moments.
It is so easy to extend these difficult moments and make ourselves miserable. We can be chronically dissatisfied because we think we are never good enough. There is always someone who is better than we are. We can be chronically dissatisfied because what we have is never quite enough. The advertising business makes sure of that. Why can’t we have only good karma ripening?
Amongst the worst moments, though, are those when we blame and punish ourselves for not being good enough. If we are not good enough, then we have to be better, to try harder, to know more. This is a seductive way of thinking because it sounds good. After all, if we want to reach enlightenment, then there is an awful lot of improvement to be done. It is not the aim which is the problem, but the attitude of blame. Blame drives us beyond what is reasonable and demands more than is possible. Blame makes us miserable even when we have achieved some small goal. Blame says, “If you are enjoying yourself, then you are wasting time. Get busy and do the hard stuff.” Blame says that pleasure is worldly.
There is a multitude of ways in which we can turn Dharma into a blame game. The pseudo-logic goes like this: I cannot allow myself to take pleasure in anything because that means I have attachment to that thing. Or sometimes it goes like this: I practice equanimity; therefore I do not indulge in either pleasure or displeasure. We can easily fall into blame, when all we need is a little patience with the slow rate of inner change.
Of course pleasure is a temporary thing. It comes and goes. It is not the lasting peace of nirvana. This does not mean that we cannot delight in those pleasures that come to us. And this delight is even greater when we let the pleasure freely pass. It is the grasping at pleasure which muddies romantic love and turns it into attachment, not the pleasure.
Every second of this human life is more precious than skies of wish-granting jewels, says Lama Zopa Rinpoche. So what are we going to do with each precious, delightful second?
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Mindfulness and Dharma Practice
By Ven. Tenzin Chönyi (Dr. Diana Taylor)
The winter sun is weak. No wind. The waves roll in parallel lines towards the shore. Myself, the dog, a couple of gulls, the otherwise empty beach are part of this quiet day. What will I be mindful of today: the way I walk, the gentleness of the day, the gulls wheeling away from Merlin’s barks, my headache, my next piece of writing, the aesthetics of the wave-sculpted sand? Mostly, I am choosing to be mindful of my thoughts. I have this article to write.
Mindfulness plays around between layers of my sensations and feelings and thoughts. Different things and thoughts grab my attention and mindfulness jumps there, like someone nervously holding a torch on a dark night. The problem, of course, is to make it stay where I want it to stay, regardless of the other exciting possibilities. If I want mindfulness to stay where I put it, I need a few other tools for developing concentration which we find in the texts on meditation.1 Mindfulness is not concentration. It is one factor that assists in developing that concentration.
By itself, mindfulness is not necessarily virtuous. It is the motivation behind the mindfulness that determines whether it is helpful or unhelpful. If I choose to be mindful of the waves rolling in, then what is behind that choice? Maybe I want to avoid thinking about something else. Maybe I want to experience connectedness to this environment. Maybe I want to study wave action. Maybe I want to observe impermanence. So if the practice of mindfulness is going to be beneficial, then my motivation should also be beneficial. If mindfulness is going to generate compassion and wisdom in my mind, then it needs to be used in conjunction with what I know will generate compassion and wisdom.
If my motivation is to have the best garden on the street, then I will be mindful of what I need to do in order to create such a garden. I will remember to compost my food scraps, to pull out the weeds, to trim the bushes and prune the trees. As I do these I will be mindful about the way I am doing each one. So far, so good. But if my motivation comes from pride and wanting my neighbors to be jealous of my excellent garden, then I will not have achieved much for my own mind.
These days mindfulness is a popular word. Google will bring up over 2 million references. It is now the main focus of much of Western psychology, particularly Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT). It is being used as a key tool in dealing with pain, stress, depression, addiction, anxiety disorders, disordered thinking, relationship problems, actualizing potential and so on. It is popular because it works. But the mindfulness of MBCT includes more than the mindfulness of keeping the mind placed on one thought or experience. MBCT mindfulness is described as “being aware of where your mind is from one moment to the next, with gentle acceptance.”2 That aspect of “being aware of where your mind is” is what we call introspection. This is another important tool. Gentle acceptance is what we mean by equanimity.
Equanimity is an important key in turning mindfulness from a mental exercise into a beneficial practice and to stopping our exaggerations. It means having a little wisdom and a little compassion, at least towards oneself. Now we have something new to be mindful of: the self that gives rise to the craving or aversion of exaggerations.
Why should we be mindful? If it is just to lower our blood pressure, then we might be a little healthier but still have a dissatisfied mind. So let me go back to my walk on the beach. Was I being mindful? Yes, for very short periods. Was I concentrating? Yes, at times, as I began to plan this article, or just enjoyed the beach, or wondered who left the tracks in the sand. Did I have equanimity? Well that was not challenged because it was such a nice day. Was my walk a Dharma practice? Now that depends on my motivation.
1 There are a number of books on this topic: for example, B. Alan Wallace’s The Attention Revolution: Unlocking the Power of the Focused Mind. Available from Wisdom Publications.
2 Germer, C.K et al. Mindfulness and Psychotherapy. New York: The Guilford Press, 2005. p. xiii
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